Milk Drops
Short reflections from the quiet edge of biology and longing.
Where milk becomes metaphor, signal becomes story,
and the body remembers more than we admit.
Milk Drops are explorations of adult nursing relationships, lactation biology, intimacy science, and the cultural erasure of nurturing desire.
Each essay examines how milk—and the relationships it creates—challenges what we think we know about bodies, attachment, and grown-up love.
These are investigations, not instructions. They're written for people who want to understand intimacy more deeply, not just practice it differently.
In All Directions: Queer Desire and the Ritual of Nursing
Adult nursing has never belonged to one body type, one gender, or one shape of love. In this reflection, Frank Gray explores queer nursing bonds, induction, fluid roles, and the milk spirits that move freely through relationships that refuse rigid categories. A meditation on nurture as an ancient, inclusive language of care.